Hello, lovelies! Welcome to the third and final instalment of my Magick and Narcissism series.
If you haven’t already, check out Part One: Spotting Narcissists and Part Two: Avoiding Narcissists.
In the first episode, I looked at red flags that pop up in relationships with Narcissists. In the second episode I explored some spells you can use to help fortify you against getting wrapped up in a relationship with a narcissist. In this episode, I’ve provided three spells you can use to help distance yourself and draw boundaries if you’re already in a relationship with a narcissist.
Getting involved with a narcissist can feel like being smothered in invisible webbing. It’s sticky, it’s confusing, and it can be hard to see a way out. Establishing boundaries is often met with a wide range of violence, from the subtle undercutting power of gaslighting to outright physical attacks.
The spells in this week’s episode give you something to work with on the invisible level, which can support moves made in the mundane world. The two worlds interact and weave together, and it’s important to address our needs in both spaces.
All of these episodes work together, building on each other. If you haven’t yet, go check out the first two!